For someone sitting with her

Stay. Listen. You don’t have to decide for her.

We do not provide or refer for abortion. If she wants a nurse, chat is here, or a form if that’s easier. Free and private. Let her type. Don’t type for her.

What helps

If she already took a pill and she wants to talk, she can say which one and when. That is hers to say. Not yours to extract.

There are two drugs, not one: mifepristone, then misoprostol. Do not become the pharmacist. Do not hand her leftover tablets.

Emergency

If she is soaking pads, dizzy, or cannot speak through pain, that is 911. Two thick full-size pads per hour for two consecutive hours is an ER. If she is crashing before the second hour, do not wait. Go with her. Tell the ER what she took so they can treat her.

If she says she might hurt herself, that is 988.

Would she rather chat with a nurse, or send the form? Free and private. Let her choose.